A hoax-book?


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I happened to read “Come Back – A Mother and Daughter’s Journey Through Hell and Back” by Claire Fontaine and Mia Fontaine.

When this book first came on the market in 2006, it seems real and provided a hope for parents who had been too busy doing personal things so they lost connection with their teenage children who might or might not had made bad choices.

The message was that there was hope by locking them up in a remote boarding school where they through use of isolation from the world would learn to love their parents or face being dumped on the street once they turn 18.

But was it real?

On Linkedin you find that the teenage part seems to have been authored by another person. So I began thinking. Was it real? Is there a real Mia out there who was abused by her father or is it once again one of those stories written to make us cry.

Some years ago there was a book named “A Rock and a Hard Place: One Boy’s Triumphant Story” allegedly written by an Anthony Godby Johnson.

He has never proven to exist.

In fact investigations proved that the real author worked together with a doctor Marc Zackheim, who is mentioned in connection with the New Horizon youth prison in indiana and Escuela Caribe in the Dominican Republic. See the documentary “Kidnapped for Christ” for more information about this organization.

So “A Rock and a Hard Place: One Boy’s Triumphant Story” was the result of imagination. Then what about the Comeback book?

Looking into the past media coverage about the Czech Republic school closed and raided by the police, I found that it happened. Various souces now make it look like it was a cover-up for some shady business involving CIA.

What I found was that the school was in fact raided. The management was charged but managed to escape the country and because the country was fresh out of the eastern block without a lot of money, they didn’t insist on trying to get the management back to stand trial, so the case against the management was dumped.

Then I looked into the other school mentioned in the book. I found that it has been closed and there is a lawsuit because a child died from suicide. There you have it again. Having experienced personal loss I have to stumble over such tragedies. I am close not to be able to bear it.

But if Mia is real, is the molestation charges against her father then real? It is just a strategy for the mother to get most out of her divorce. It would not be the first time a parent has used so-called professionals at treatment facilities to cook up some serious allogations against the other parent.

In Denmark we have the “Roum case”. A therapist who made a name out of herself, found that an entire village – 35 people – had abused some children. To make the case stick the police picked 8 people randomly and they were put in prison until other professionals began to wonder why this therapist was so good at finding cases. It was proven that the therapist had been able to place false memories at the children, so the convicted people was set free but they where broken people and they never recovered.

I don’t know what to think about the “Comeback” book. False author. Boarding schools which are raided and suicides at a place supposedly aimed at helping people. Something is wrong – very wrong about this book.

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Senseless conviction in the suicide of Conrad Roy III


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Once again I fell compelled to comment on a hard subject in relation with the conviction of Ms. Carter of her alleged role in the suicide of this Conrad dude.

I find it wrong that she was sentenced at all.

As I have stated before I did not recognize how far my brother was to take his own life and we were close.

So how should she be able to predict that he would go through with it?

This trial has been crazy from the very start. I hope that the appeal process reverse the entire outcome so she can go on with her life.

How many incidents before it is a pattern?


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I saw a press release on a message board what a family had sued Diamond Ranch Academy which is one of those private child prisons in Utah parents can send their child to if the child gets poor grades or is showing interest on the wrong gender or just wants to dress like the other gender.

According to the law suit a girl was assaulted by an employee who had been warned several times. Why just not fire the employee the very first time something out of line occur? It is asking for a law suit.

I will guess that the so-called Academy will write this of as a single incident. A single random happening which just placed them in a bad spotlight.

However I decided to Google. I found another case involving a teacher at the so-called Academy who had very undecent contents on his computer. Contents which placed him in prison for many years.

Then I found that two boys had died while they were at the so-called Academy.

One had snuck out in the showers where he hanged himself. To understand why going to school could make people do that, I can read based on testimonies from the former students that they start at the school without permission to keep a cell-phone or having social media access to all their friends back home. This social isolation can bring anyone to the edge. I know due to very sad things which happened to my family which you can read in this blog. That parents can allow this, should make local social services back home intervene and remove the child and siblings from the parents control. Social isolation in a strange place out of town is a totally no-no unless court ordered.

Another died due to illness. I learned that the so-called Academy used to be located more remotely than today. I also learned that the employees where slow to react to illness because they often experience that it could be manipulation. However it only take one bad judgment before a family gets a corpse home instead of a son. If placed in that situation I as an employee would never take that risk. Just imagine having to tell the parents that their son had passed away. Then you can as many local coroners on your salarylist trying to find an excuse. Still just having to pass this message. It is not fun.

Now we have 4 single incidents about this Diamond Ranch Academy. Is it a pattern showing an evil operation? What do you say?

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My thoughts of the suicide of Conrad Roy III


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In my last post I wrote about not ever mentioning the suicide of my brother again and yet I will write about it in this blog entry due to the suicide of Conrad Roy III.

Apparently the court found his friend Michelle Carter guilty of having pushed him over the edge.

I have to say that the mother of Conrad Roy III properly miss her son just as much as I miss my brother. My brother will properly be in my memory forever. Do I blame someone for his death? Yes. I blame the Danish government for having forced him to work in a foreign country in what basically turned out to be isolation.

But I am also realistic. I cannot take the government to court because it is runned by people who came directly from a school to politics. They are supposed to know how their legislations affects people and in the case of my brother directly hurt people. The voters want it to be so. I am one of them. I pay a lot in taxes. I do that so I do not have to use my time volunteering in a soup kitchen or otherwise concern myself with illness or hardship. I am not in a line of business where I work with human welfare in any form and have decided not concern myself with that as result of my careerchoice.

I have to say that it was somewhat tiresome talking to my brother during his last months. I don’t know how many times I said to him: “Give up” “Come back home and live some time on welfare. I am paying taxes so you should be allowed that”. Why shouldn’t he? We pay a lot of so-called refugees for stealing jobs from Danes when they are hired by employers all over Denmark kicking ordinary paid Danes out of their job, so the refugees can be integrated by working for no pay at all. The employers are happy because they save money for salary and can kick expensive workers out. I would have no problems seeing my brother on welfare because there is not work for everyone. Especially when we invite everyone who claims to have seen suffering in a country far away to live here.

But my brother was proud. He could not bear to return to Denmark unemployed and having uncompleted his time down there. I was so tired back then.

I guess that Michelle Carter was tired of having been phone by Conrad Roy III too. She is not a trained professional. She was not prepared to listen to all his complaints and it was far from first time that he contacted her tired of his life. Well. It was the first ruling of its kind. None were fully sure how the court system wants people to react when people trying to kill themselves phone them.

I guess what the court just told the world to do it so switch phonenumber and unfriend people thinking of suicide on social networks. There is no right advice to give people in that situation and we are taxpayers not doctors. I think that the ruling is wrong. The girl should not be given the level of responsability because she is not trained. The media provide of with so-called news of tons of suffering from all over the world. I makes me numb of hearing people complain. I do not care about wars, hunger and illness because I pay my taxes so others can choose to make a living of helping others.

As for the relatives of Conrad Roy III, I have to say. Move on! People kill themselves all the time. I would have loved to drag my brother back to Denmark so he could have gotten some ECT and collect money from state instead of continuing to sit isolated down in Germany and in the end die but it would not have worked. Some people just die. We live and we must continue to live enjoying what is left before our employer kicks us out so our job-position can be taken over by someone working for free.

The last part about my job-future made me sad. Now I really need a beer.

The terrible scar which will never go away


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I visited my parents. They have not been able to move on from my brothers death. I cannot blame them. Losing one of your children before you die is properly the worst thing which can happen to any parent.

I have to say that I also feel the loss. It is like a scar which will not go away. It is something which I have to carry for myself forever. And it doesn’t help talking about it. It cannot change anything. It is just like this.

So I have decided to take it like a Danish man and move on. This post is the end of the topic. My brother died because he was forced to live outside our culture and I urge any young Dane not to spend time abroad if possible. You cannot integrate yourself in another country just like people cannot be integrated succesfully in Denmark. Our family learned it the hard way. Learn from our experiences and do not repeat our mistake.

Terrible boating accident in Copenhagen yesterday


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I have not been active on this blog 2017. I have been busy doing a new job where I travel to Copenhagen for meetings with the main office. I takes long time due to the heavy traffic on the roads to Copenhagen and public transport in Denmark is simply too expensive and of too poor quality to use as an alternative to the car.

When I switched on my Television last night I learned of a terrible boating accident which now have claimed the lives of two people from the United States.

When I learned where it had taken place I recognized it as just next to the office. When I had breaks during my visits to the office, I often went down to the harbor. I have often wondered why it was allowed to rent out boats just there where the busy harbor ferries passes by. Also we have to remember that there is a lot of construction going down in south part of the harbor and they need to pass this place to deliver goods.

It was a tragedy waiting to happen. It is sad that two people from the United States had to die before anyone can think of ordering the business owners renting out boats to tourist to demand that those who rent boat have to sit down an entire day and learn about the traffic rules on open water because it doesn’t matter if you rent a boat in the Copenhagen harbor or you decide to cross the Atlantic ocean. You have to learn how the international rules on water works!

These small boats cannot be seen before you are almost too close when you enter the area in a harbor ferry. Now 8 people will have to use time of the criminal case. Maybe it will end just as it did when a woman from Australia didn’t observe a full stop in Jutland and 3 children died when they were hit by a car going + 50 kilometers over the speed limit. The danish driver was fined DKK 10,000 and had to retake his drivers license.

It is a lot of money our legal system will have to use on this case and it could have been avoided if the businesses renting out various boat in the inner Copenhagen harbor had to obey stricter rules ordering them to educatate their customers before putting the customers into dangerous situations.

Looking back at 2016


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2016 was a kind of “Getting over 2015” year.

We all cope with loss as we best do. The medication I would working was exercise. Grief is not something you can talk you way out of. You have to give it time. You have to decide what to remain bitter about and what to let go.

There was certainly a lot of things I could have done differently regarding getting my brother home before it was too late.

But I didn’t and I cannot remain sorry about things undone.

I can remain bitter about the conditions which forced him to make this terrible decision to move which resulted in his death. That is where I have put my energy. To warn other against making the same kind of decision.

2017 can be a challenge also. I have to find a new line of work. The printing industry will never recover. It is an industry kicked out by politicians who want to make secret deals with IT-companies so there are room for kickbacks to everyone.

Instead of 15,000 people in the printing industry have jobs with decent salaries, 1,000 people in the IT-industry on friendly terms with the politicians get high salaries. How that can benefit our society I cannot figure out.

2017 – here I come. I am not sure what to expect but quiet it is certainly not going to be.

Danes should say no to the Comprehensive Economic and Trade Agreement (CETA)


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I am happy that the Comprehensive Economic and Trade Agreement seems to fail due to the effort of the brave people in a long forgotten part of Belgium. Normally I regard this part of Belgium as hill-billies speaking a strange language compared to the more important part of Belgium in the north.

But I have to praise them for their courage voting no to the agreement.

In fact I believe that the Danish parliament should have voted no.

Because the agreement was accepted by the Danish government without asking for something instead. That something should be that Canada once and for all forget any idea of owning the Danish island Hans Island.

Right now our military forces are too busy bombing ISIS but I really feel that we should order a general mobilization and send a larger force to the island defending Danish interests and whipped the Canadian forces right back home where they belong.

Please continue to vote no to the trade agreement until the island is Denmarks entirely unquestioned.

Sad time for a humanitarian


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Martin Gottesfeld is the subject of a court case where he is believed to be the entire Anonymous network of hackers. Boston Children’s Hospital who basically jailed a poor girl because the doctors at the hospital disagreed with the diagnose the girl’s doctors had given her.

At some point during the case with the girl the website of the hospital was compromised. While the girl was able to return home to her family and continue her treatment for her original illness, the police began looking for Martin Gottesfeld. He was arrested and has now started a hunger strike.

This case should get a lot more attention. We as ordinary people should be able to seek treatment without risking being labeled with illnesses, we dont suffer from.

Thanks to the effort of many people – including Martin Gottesfeld – the girl was freed.

They should release him right now.

But money talks and I fear that he will become victim for the money people behind the Boston Children’s Hospital.

We need to put faces on these people. We need to bring them out in the public so people will know that they have invested money in a firm which doesn’t care about ordinary people.

For more info, please visit the FreeMartyG campaign.